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About friendship and warming yesterday's soup

No second day food tastes as well or looks as appealing as the fresh one we had the day before, but if we are really hungry, it can be an excellent option!

It's in our nature to renew ourselves everyday, even if we don't acknowledge that change. It is true that we get accustomed to some people, and when we lose them, it's hard to "take up where we left off" afterwards.  

That is why it's important for when a friendship takes a hit, to fix the damage immediately! We are always waiting for someone else to come fight our battles, mend what's been broken and say the hardest of words. Just not us. Let them do it first!

We have friends with various personalities, ambitions, lifestyles and still manage to find a common link between us - they accept us for who we are! And we ain't easy to deal with! As long as we keep that in mind, we will do the same for them. I accept you because you accept me, the relationship benefits us both.

I like to think that friends take up little pieces of our hearts, in the shape of small colourful different drawers that get stuffed with memories (good and bad) and once in a while these drawers tend to break under the heavy load. So when those fragile little drawers get too crowded, we must learn to let go of the bad, and just save the good!



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