With the years passing by, I found some harsh truths about love:
♤ Intense feelings do not equal love.
♤ Yes, you can be easily forgotten. It might feel sudden, but for the other one, this was already prepared for quite some time.
♤ Sudden end of a relationship is like experiencing a death.
♤ Narcissists are a threat and they are more common than expected.
♤ Rip the band-aid at the first red flag. Your intuition is never wrong.
♤ I found 3 markers of a toxic relationship: love cycles, with each leaving you worse than the previous one; obsession and make belief - denying reality; no evolution for you, as an individual, inside the relationship - fear takes over.
♤ The amount of effort and thought you put into it is not reciprocated, therefore the imbalance in intensity.
♤ You see the signs. They only get worse.
♤ You are allowed to be blind once. Afterwards, control your mind and redirect the energy towards you.
♤ They do not care. Don't ask yourself any question. Move on.
Evolve, be the best version of yourself for yourself.
A partner is an accessory, not a necessity.
If it brings light, keep it, if not, let it go damp someone else's light.
Love smart 🖤🧚🏼♀️
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